devotionalsex:
“ Tantric sex within Devotional Sex includes quiet times of spooning.
Most intercourse seen in photos on Tumblr is fucking - hard pumping (as seen in porn).
Devotional Sex encourages slower, more sensual, longer lasting (but less...
devotionalsex

Tantric sex within Devotional Sex includes quiet times of spooning.

Most intercourse seen in photos on Tumblr is fucking - hard pumping (as seen in porn).

Devotional Sex encourages slower, more sensual, longer lasting (but less visually appealing) sex which is very much in the direction of Tantric sex.

Because the Knight may not have cum for many days, and because he is probably not going to be allowed to cum now, he naturally changes his behaviour to something that makes it easier to control himself and not cum. And because he is not allowed to cum he is happy for the intercourse to last for as long as it can.

Sex where every small movement is a powerful dance of the senses creates connection between the couple. Just a little squeeze or movement from her is electrifying for him, and she can feel every throb of his erection even when he stays still, or every little movement if he moves gently in and out.

I think it very sad that so many these days think that good sex is hard fucking. For me such sex is like bad fast food - a quick load of fat, sugar and salt that will quickly satisfy primal urges, but is lacking most of the pleasures of good food.

For most people connection based sex is boring and devoid of ‘passion’. After over 13 years of practicing Devotional Sex I can’t imagine going back to such crude and unsatisfying 'passion’. I would rather give a date a long foot massage than have a quicky against the kitchen wall. For me it is the quicky that would be unsatisfying.

The tantric component of Devotional Sex is an equally important component to the use of mild female erotic power. Lots of gentler slower sex is very different from most porn on Tumblr, and for me it is incredibly better.